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November 10 人生过客 人的一生中,会有很多过客,有些人在你人生中留下个印记就走了,有些人却陪你一起走人生,有些是快乐,有些是悲伤,但是所有的一切我们都无需后悔,因为都是自己所选择。
虽然才过了短短的三分之一人生(后面那三分之二还不知道有没有),各种各样的人在我生命中进进出出,让我领悟到很多,无论是好的还是坏的,感谢你们在我生命中出现过,你们教了我很多。
--可以交付生死的朋友,或者讲兄弟,陪着我一同成长,默契到无需太多言语,却能交付生死的一辈子的兄弟。
--能够交心的朋友,无论你在干吗,都时刻会惦记,询问近况的朋友,当你开心和想喝酒的时候会不问理由立即出来的朋友。不需要时刻联系,却可以陪着疯癫。
--曾经在你生命中扮演重要角色的人,朋友,爱人。却能够在你生命中说走就走,每个人都有自己的幸福要去追求,留下的伤心学会清理,无需强求,既然他们可以这样的离去,也就不会在乎你的一切,虽然痛,但却学会了舔食自己的伤口,因为他们不会回来,而我也无需挽留。。。
--曾经也是在你生命中重要的人,值得信任的人,却在某个时刻背叛你,或者因为你的落魄而离开你,你可以怪他嘛,没必要,因为他是你选择的朋友,只能是打掉牙齿往自己肚子里吞。
以上的几种类型我都遇到过了,学会了淡然,学会了珍惜,也学会了无所谓。要痛要死要烂也让它烂在最深处吧,时间长了也就麻木了。只是要多点时间来好好的回报那些无论在任何情况下都会陪我一起走的朋友们,谢谢你们,至少还有你们能让我保持笑容。 November 05 strikeWhat is the popular word for November, I should certainly say "strike".
if I never run a company which is mainly rely on the workers, I will definitely stand on workers' feet and say, let's strike for what they owe us, but after some time work in the factory. I have another point of view to see throught all the strikes.
From the workers feet:
due to all the material price rise, the current pay can hardly support their families, even if they have the money to live, but dont have spare money for their children's education, so I see lots of the illegal labors in the factories. you will never believe and image one 12 years old child working in the assembly workshop with his mother, but unfortunately, I m there to witness all these things happen. at that time, I dont know what to say, just asked his mother to take him out and persuaded her to let his child go to school. after some times, I heard the woman left the factory with his son, but till now, I m still wonder whether the child go to school or still work in another place.
From the factory feet:
due to the market situation, as the sale price cant be rised, and the cost is increasing every day, so the profit space is getting smaller and smaller, but all the bosses they still very clear about one thing, in this type of the factories, workers are always should put at the first place, if they are gone, the factories are gone, so the boss want to settle down all the problems that workers are facing at. but they just dont know what will be the reasonable price. they are waiting for the workers to negotiate with them, but the workers are too afraid to be a leader during the strike, so none of them will take the responsibility to negotiate with the boss. they just wait and do nothing.
that is the actual reason why the strike will be lasting for so long. becoz, neither the workers nor the bosses want to make the first move on this price thing.
to deal with this problem, a labor union will be required, also the bosses should be union to define the industrial rules for the labors to follow up.
during the strike, I interview few of the labors, and following are their answers, some of them are even a little funny
why you strike
"Money"
"I have family to support"
"I dont know, seems funny"
"that guy told me to trike, I dont want to but I am afraid of him"
"I just went to the toilet, every one has gone when I came back, I cant work alone in the workshop, they will kill me."
"once a year, it's like a traditional holiday for our workers" OMG
Hope one day, the boss and labors can sit at the same table to have a nice conversation on this strike topic, and get things done in bose prefer way. November 02 ten for tenthese days, I became extremly busy, everyday 7:30 to 17:00 for the factory work, sometimes stayed till 21:00.
after back home, start with another things, plan, paper work always occupy lots of my rest time. that make me not to remind myself so much stuff. and it's the only way I can sleep, to make myself exhausted before sleep...
usually when i got bad mood, or something to decide, I will go for shot, play basketball, make ten shots from the penalty line. and I said to myself, if I can make eight out of ten, it means, the thing I m wishing for will come true, otherwise, forget it. I know it sounds like stupid idea, and I never talk to anyone else about this. but believe or not, It works. and just few days ago, I went to the yard, and make the ten shots, ten for ten... unbelievable, I never did that. hope this time, it still works.
Lately I got some good idea in my head and I really want to realize it, it needs lot of courage and people money things, still under the plan, and I dont want to give up this time, I m lucky that I still have the power to dream the future. from that point of view, I m not dead inside.
currently there are two things are important to me. one for each. wish I can handle both well. |
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